When visiting campus, it’s not just about football tailgates and brunch in the dining halls. Your visit provides you with an opportunity to connect with your student and his/her campus. Here are a few tips to help you make the most of your visit:
- Listen to your Student: This is your time together to communicate face-to-face so try to talk less and listen more. You may just pick up on some subtleties that don’t come through long-distance phone calls or video chats.
- Try New Things: There are a several activities for you and your family to get involved with this weekend so try them out. Perhaps you or your student may find a new hobby or interest as a result!
- Meet & Mingle: As you go to these events spark up conversations with other families and ask questions. Creating a network of support between other families and yourself, may become a valuable resource for you.
- Participate on Campus: It may be tempting to head off campus, but several of the activities we have planned for you will allow you to explore some of the opportunities available to your student, within the university.
- Ooh and Aah Instead of Huff and Puff: Try to remain upbeat and positive throughout the weekend. Comment on how good the dining hall food is, how your student has decorated her room, or how pretty the campus grounds are. Your student will be seeing campus through your eyes this weekend.
- Put Yourself in Visitor Mode: You are on your student’s turf this weekend. Let him take the lead and show you his place with pride.
But Most of All…
- Enjoy your Visit and Have Fun!
We look forward to seeing you all this weekend!
For the complete schedule of events for Family Weekend please click on the following link http://www.missouristate.edu/familyassociation/events.htm.
Tips taken from Parent Pages, 2007.